My son Jalen is 11 years old. He looks like a typical kid,
but it doesn't take long to realize he has serious disabilities.
His speech is hard to understand, and he functions academically
at a kindergarten level.
Although there's some disagreement, Jalen was diagnosed with
mental retardation and autism. Despite years of early intervention
and receiving Eugene School District special education services,
he remains on the outside looking in, unable to really comprehend
the world around him.
Jalen is just one of 8,218 children living with disabilities
in Lane County. Children with brain damage or brain disorders
include 595 kids with autism and 392 with mental retardation.
Diagnosed cases of autism have increased 582 percent in Oregon
since 1993. Many others are diagnosed with less severe forms
of learning disabilities. Statewide, the number of children
identified as having special needs increased almost 30 percent
from 1993 to 2003.
Under federal law, all children with special needs are entitled
to a "free and appropriate education." This law sometimes
causes tension between parents and school districts.
Schools are attempting to provide selected services without
spending too much, while parents are vying to get the services
they think their children need. Sometimes there is disagreement
about what is "appropriate."
About 10 percent of special education students spend most of
their time in a "life skills" classroom. Here the
most impaired children gather in one multi-age classroom taught
by a teacher and several assistants. This is the only kind of
classroom the school district deemed appropriate for Jalen.
The teacher and assistants in Jalen's former class of about
10 children were wonderful. I watched them running around putting
out a dozen fires every day, feeding and diapering children
with severe physical or cognitive disabilities, cuddling younger
children in their arms, and working on individualized education
for each child.
Despite heavy staffing, such classrooms are very intense. Some
children exhibit extremely challenging behavior.
As Jalen became more aware of his surroundings, he could no
longer tolerate other children's outbursts. His teacher noted
he was often sad all day after witnessing another kid's "meltdown."
They tried everything - earphones, separation - but it was still
too distressing. She agreed with my decision to home-school
him.
Obviously, the kids were not at fault; they were struggling
with their own limitations. It wasn't the teacher's fault, either.
Instead, the problem for Jalen was the nature of the system.
I visited several other life skills classes, but realized none
would fit his needs. Finally, I got it: Right now there is no
appropriate place for Jalen in the school system.
Navigating the special education maze is difficult, and sometimes
school personnel make it even harder. More than once, school
district personnel have given me information they thought might
be helpful, but asked me not to reveal its source because they
might "get in trouble." I've heard the same story
from other parents. Other times, a district representative will
approve certain services only to be contradicted by another
administrator. In the worst cases, expensive and time-consuming
lawsuits are filed. Not surprisingly, parents of children with
disabilities often feel stressed and worried about their children's
future.
The good news is that there's help in the form of Bridgeway
House, a Eugene nonprofit organization for children and families
with autism and other developmental disabilities. Bridgeway
House is run by parents of children with disabilities. The organization
provides support groups and resource information to parents
working with school districts and other professionals. It also
offers develop- mental therapies, enrichment courses and general
support.
In the meantime, parents say the school system needs to adopt
a wider continuum of services. At a recent Bridgeway House meeting
attended by seven parents, three were home-schooling and two
had children enrolled in private schools. A recent study shows
home-schooled special ed students made more yearly progress
than public school children.
Better access to appropriate services within the school system
is what most parents want, and some parents and professionals
are working hard to make this a reality. But it should be easier
to establish that a public school setting is not the best place
for some children to learn and grow.
"Trying to get some of our kids to thrive in school is
like trying to pound a square peg into a round hole," one
parent observed.
The goal of making parents and professionals equal partners
has not been reached, according to many parents. There are some
good things happening in special education, but many problems
need to be addressed.
Cynthia Whitfield of Eugene (cynhome2@msn.com) is a free-lance
writer. Bridgeway House (www. bridgewayhouse.org) can be reached
at 345-0805.